Since Steve and Kyle both brought up manslaughter heat-of-passion type defenses for straight men who find themselves in a romantic encounter with a gay man, I'd like to do some thought experiments.
A heat-of-passion defense is available for times when you find your wife in bed with another man, or get in an amazingly heated argument with your abusive husband, and things like that (the list is relatively limited, but not exhaustive). The idea is that you didn't have malice aforethought (in advance) and therefore aren't guilty of actual
murder. You've committed a less serious crime, because you were forced into violence by the situation.
I call bullshit. I tend to lean toward the
Mulatto Bob approach, which says that "no time is too short for a wicked man to frame in his mind a scheme for murder, and to contrive the means of accomplishing it." But, unfortunately, the courts don't agree with me: they say that there are provocations which are "calculated to inflame the passion of a reasonable man and tend to cause him to act for the moment from passion rather than reason." (
Girouard v. State, 583 A.2d 718 (Md. 1991).
An act without reason cannot be murder, since murder requires malice aforethought.
In homicides, there are usually only two witnesses to the crime: one of them can't be made to testify, and one of them is dead. In such an unfortunate situation, we get very little information about the defendant's actual state of mind at the time of the killing. Luckily, we don't need to know what really happened: we can drag the "reasonable man" before the court and ask jurors to imagine: what would the reasonable man have felt in this situation?
This is the heart of the heat-of-passion defense. Through a mix of jury instructions and admitted testimony and overruled objections, the court allows the story to be told that a reasonable man in this situation might find himself in a heat-of-passion, unable to control his impulses or unable to countenance the consequences of his deeds. The jury then gets to decide if the defendant was following the lead of that reasonable man, and--if so--that defendant is not guilty of murder at all.
So, here are the thought experiments. What would the reasonable man feel in these situations? Would he be able to control his rage? If he killed, would we entertain the suggestion that he just couldn't help it?
(A) A guy meets a pretty girl at a bar and she has an expensive purse, designer shoes and flashy jewelry. He's pretty hard up for cash due to a medical debt, and thinks, "This is the one. If only she'd marry me, I'd be able to have my surgery and live an extra five years." She offers to let him walk her home. The whole way he thinks about how great it's going to be when they're legally married and have joint bank accounts. They arrive at her apartment and it's a dump. In the streetlight he realizes that her Gucci is a Fucci and--in an uncontrollable rage, he stabs her twenty times with a rusty pair of scissors.
Can financial disappointment trigger heat of passion?
(B) Same guy meets a pretty girl in the bar and walks her home. The whole way, he's looking forward to spending time with the most beautiful woman he's ever seen. Under the same streetlight he realizes she's actually quite homely--her eyes are different sizes and she has ogre breath. In an uncontrollable rage, he stabs her twenty times with a rusty pair of scissors.
Can misapprehension of physical attractiveness trigger heat of passion?
(C) Same guy meets a beautiful girl--only this time she really is quite beautiful. He walks her home, with all the same thoughts about spending time with a lovely and kind woman. Under the streetlight, he notices the name on her mailbox. It's his mother's maiden name. He mentions it. Three minutes later they realize they are siblings. In an uncontrollable rage, he stabs her twenty times with a rusty pair of scissors.
Can mistaken potential for sexual encounter trigger heat of passion?
(D) Same guy. Jewish girl turns out to be Greek. Scissors.
(E) Same guy. Girl with fake breasts. Scissors.
(F) Same guy. Girl is a guy. Scissors.
Maybe the trick is that they had already begun engaging in sexual activity. So, at what point would the reasonable man be unable to control his rage at a man dressed like a woman?
(A) Standing close in the bar. Scissors.
(B) Kissing in the bar. Scissors.
(C) Kissing on the street corner. Scissors.
(D) Second base in her apartment. Scissors.
(E) Third base. Scissors.
(F) Home run. Scissors.
(G) After the fact? Scissors?
The underlying question is whether intentionally killing someone is ever reasonable. I'm inclined to say no. Therefore, I think the reasonable man would say, "Whoa, wait a minute--this isn't what I thought I was getting myself into. Goodbye, and no don't call me." To be enraged because someone misrepresented their gender (a misrepresentation which I think, for the purposes of tricking someone into having sex with you, is ethically reprehensible) is not reasonable. Killing someone for misrepresenting their gender is more akin to revenge killing than heat-of-passion killing. It deserves no slack in our criminal system.
Of course, maybe I'm the unreasonable one here. I'm gay, so I'm used to gender-benders. I've probably got more education than is healthy. I'm in law school. I also believe that it takes only a moment for an evil man to frame in his mind a scheme for murder. It would take longer than that to find a pair of scissors.